Anonymous asked: I love the idea of Stiles calling Derek baby and Derek pretending to be all grumpy about it but secretly he really loves it!
i like thinking about Derek pretending his ears didn’t prick up the moment Stiles parked the Jeep in their spot in the apartment parking lot. like he isn’t listening to him on the stairs and feeling bright and excited that Stiles is home. i like imagining Stiles always grinning when he comes in the door and sees Derek poised for his entrance, and make a crack about Derek’s metaphorical tail wagging. Derek scowling and blustering like “no, i was just preparing myself for the onslaught of noise” and not meaning it at all because he gets this little running commentary stilesiscomingstilesiscomingstilesishome as the door opens.
Stiles’ number is saved in his phone as home. Derek relishes the fact he has a home, and even when they move to a house, with a land line, Stiles stays stored in his contacts as home. and Stiles steals his phone all the time and updates his contact pictures, not just Stiles’, but Scott’s to one of Scott asleep upside down on the couch, Allison eating pie and glaring at anyone daring to get close, Isaac in the scarf section in Macy’s and his face DEEPLY EXCITED. so Derek never knows what picture’s going to show up when people call, and he gets to roll his eyes fondly when anyone sees the picture, smile goofily and say “my family” as he waves his phone around.
or when he pretends he doesn’t appreciate Stiles draping himself all over Derek in the evenings. or steals pieces of chicken or pepper whilst Derek’s preparing food. or when Stiles forgets himself and calls Derek baby in front of people, and Derek’s ears are burning the whole time but he still feels warm inside because yes, he is! he’s someone’s person. someone needs him and wants him as much as he needs and wants them.
and it’s just nice. to have a life. even if Stiles constantly sticks his cold feet under Derek’s legs and makes him hiss, and never lets Derek watch a movie in the dark without needing some sort of laptop or ipad screen on (he can’t do two things at once, most often his alternative is to casually grope Derek throughout the movie, Derek still can’t tell you what happens at the end of half the movies they’ve watched, just nods and hums when the pack get into discussion about them).
Anonymous asked: All I can think about is Stiles counting Derek's fingers whenever he's alone with him, checking he is in fact not dreaming but actually awake, with Derek, finally, after years of pining, and he just can't believe he got that lucky and he can't help but think it's still the Nogitsune tricking him... and then there's Derek reassuring him, being all caring and gentle and ugh the feels.
really early on in their relationship Stiles would press his fingertips to Derek’s in hello and goodbye, even if they kissed or hugged (you cannot tell me they wouldn’t be big on displays of affection, maybe not public, but those two? they’d be all up on each other 24/7) but yeah, they’d get into the habit of just a little touch, an alignment of all five fingertips one after the other, hello, goodbye, i missed you, i love you, be safe, come home.
always that brief touch of the pads of their fingers as they lean into one another in greeting or goodbye.
- Some asexuals have actually had sex/are sexually active, generally because they do it to please their partner. Some even enjoy it!
- Some asexuals masturbate regularly.
- Some asexuals watch porn.
- Some asexuals love smutty fanfics and stuff.
That does not make them any less of an asexual. Asexuals do not feel sexual attraction, it does not mean that they burst into flame at the mere mention of anything sexual. Seriously.